I needed to hear this more than you know. I think I've been so afraid of disappointing people that I forgot I'm allowed to have boundaries too. Maybe being alone for a while is healthier than constantly feeling unseen. Thank you for reminding me that the right people won't make me earn their care. I'll try to choose myself a little more from now on.

1mo ago

stop doing it, for real. it's hard at first, but better be alone than with the wrong people. cliche, I know, but it's true. and it's ok to be alone sometimes, even lonely. then, after you out your boundaries, the people who actually like you for who you are, will come and stay.

2mo ago